When you hit a brick wall, it is time to retrace your steps. You could curse the wall all you want and blame the person that built it, and the person who told you to turn right instead of left, and your parents, and whoever else you can think of. But the reality is that your two feet took you there and now you have to stand and face this. So go back through your path and own every step and every decision that you made. Maybe you should not have listened to that person, or maybe you should have, either way, it is time to accept your choices as your own. Once you have accepted that the current situation is all of your own doing, you can move past it and know that you now have to power to not put yourself that situation again. But only if you own every step.
Slow down and take a moment to look at your motives today. Are the actions you are about to take motivated by fear or love? If you are working with your highest self the actions are naturally born of love and there is serenity to your thoughts around the action. If you are trying to dominate another, there is a panic and unnecessary urgency to your actions. If you feel the urgency in a non-urgent matter, stop and reflect before you go any further. If you act out of fear, you are giving more power to your fear. It may not seem like there are other options right now, but there are, it is just hard to see them when your brain is going around in circles. If you are like me, the best thing to do in that state is to write down everything that is going wrong until your head is clear again, and then brainstorm on how else you could tackle this challenge. You have the ability to find the actions that keep you serene and move you forward and are born of love.
So what is it that you are not being honest with yourself about? Are you following your true path? Is there a relationship that you are being false in? There is a disconnect between what you believe about yourself and what you are telling the rest of us, and we can see that something is slightly off kilter. There may be fear that we won’t like what you are not telling us, but we are all hiding some small little bit, so be brave and be the first to open up, and we will follow.
It is time to start moving again! You are ready to move forward and leave behind and adapt the things that have not been working for you. Because of the work you have been doing, this will be a natural progression. If there are any blockages, look at what grudges you are still holding on to. Forgiveness is the key to moving forward. The anger and resentment from the things you begrudge wrap themselves around your feet and keep you rooted in one spot. Clear them away by forgiving first yourself and then the offender and you will soon be free.
The sun is now shining from within. Use your newfound serenity to guide your next actions. It may be time to drop some of the plans you had that were not born out of love and joy. Today you have access to the true desires of you heart and the courage to follow through.
To each his own. Today is a day to take care of the things you need to do for yourself. It is easy to get caught up in helping other people, it can be rewarding and fun but be careful how much you give because you want to versus because you feel you should, or that it is expected of you. It is okay to say no to things that stretch you too thin or take you away from your true path. And don’t feel obliged to explain yourself either, people who need detailed explanations of why you will or won’t do something are just looking for control. On the other hand, so you demand too much of other people? Do you demand a long winded explanation when someone turns you down? Whichever side you are on, it is time to own up to your boundaries and release and extra burdens that you have added to those around you.
Now that things have quieted down, and the world didn’t really end, what are you left with? It is time to stand still for a moment and listen to your inner self. What have you learned in the last few weeks of uncertain energy? What revelations have emerged? Now that you know yourself it is time to set yourself free. Not by any great action, but simply by being still and being one with all that you are. Once you have found the stillness seek out and acknowledge those things you fear, the fears that immobilize you. Feel them and let them go. Know that they no longer serve you. Stand still in a place without fear, without the need to do something, when the time is right, the correct actions will come and the first steps will be effortless. If you feel a resistance in your efforts, stop and take another look at yourself. What is tethering you? Keep releasing until you feel calm and serene and the tethers will release, and you will feel the freedom.
There is a great chance that something strange may happen today, on top of the current chaos that everyone is going through lately. Today there are no chance encounters. Messages are being sent out, are you ready to receive? Are you ready to listen to your higher self and take the necessary steps for your own evolution? This is not the end, but an amazing beginning. Many of you have been awaking over this last year. It has been a year of dealing with all the emotions and beliefs that we had buried, and the last of those are now coming to the surface. It is time to turn and face the things you have been running from and listen to the wisdom that is coming in from all around you. The message is being sent in many forms, all you have to do is listen.
You have some awesome gifts coming your way. The catch is that you first have to make room for them. The memories of the events that shaped you and made you into the person you are now no longer serve you. It is time to say thanks for making me stronger, and let the grief go. By letting go of the grief you are not lessening the lessons you learned, rather you are honoring those lessons by learning to live with the benefits and not the pain. For some it can be hard because the pain you experienced in past is part of your self-identity. But every time you go back and identify with the event you give it more power over you. The longer you hold onto the past and try to squash it, the more likely a similar situation will occur. Stop feeding your past, and you can claim your future
It is a very romantic sentiment, but collapsing yourself into a relationship is dangerous. You are cheating you partner and yourself when you lose sight of yourself. It can be tricky, especially when it is new and exciting to go everywhere and do everything that the other does, but a balance must be reached. Set aside time to be by yourself, and to go out with your own group of friends. If there is clear communication, there should be no problem asking for space when you need it. And if you are the one being asked for space, give it freely, because if the relationship is healthy, the person will come back renewed and revived.